Hello
These are often complicated issues involving multiple underlying things. To include diet, litter and litter box dislikes and environmental stress. I would look for a vet who specializes in feline medicine and place different kinds of litter boxes and litter types for your cat. Also make the area your cat lives in is as free of stress as possible. Calm quiet and easy to access all of the things she needs. Like fresh high quality canned food. Fresh water. And immaculately clean litter boxes. Also I add an anti inflammatory like dasaquin and a pain medication. I like gabapentin but your vet might use something else. Also ask about learning how to give sq fluids at home. Follow up with a urinalysis too.
Good luck








Hello,
Im sorry to hear about your kitty. Im sorry for both of you. I know it must be stressful for you and he must be very confused about what is expected of him. There is so much to this that I am actually going to recommend a book. Feline Behavior by Bonnie Beaver has a lot of helping information. It is written for vets but it is my go to. I also think that maybe you should look into a feline specialist. I can’t go into all of the options available to you because that requires a long conversation and an examination but I wouldn’t recommend surgery now.
I can’t tell you that in my household I had to make a lot of changes to help my cat relax and stop peeing in places I wasn’t able to clean. There are answers. The key is trying to understand what he is trying to tell you by the change in his behavior.
I wish I could give you the magic answer. I hope you guys can figure it out together and keep everyone at home happily. .
Do you have a recommendation for a feline specialist in Central Maryland? Thanks!