Hello Annie, just a note on top of what Krista has said, having had a dog with this condition myself. She was younger than your boy too.

I’m afraid your only option here is expensive surgery. If you decide to go down that route find a Specialist to do the Surgery. In the UK we have to be referred by our own Vet for Specialist treatment but I don’t know about Canada.

There is an aid you could look at that would enable him to walk with your help. Perhaps this would help short term until you decide what to do. At least he could go outside. 

The aid is called The Walkabout Back Harness and you will find the company online. 

I wish you good luck. 

Hi Sarah,

There are lots of things you can do to help your cat. First, here is a great link about it :http://www.vet.cornell.edu/fhc/health_information/brochure_destructive.cfm

Make sure to provide lots of other options for her, scratching posts are great, or the rigid cardboard scratcher boxes–you sprinkle some cat nip on them to lure them and encourage her to scratch.

Clip her nails as short as possible. If you are not comfortable doing this, take her to a groomer or your vet. It’s important to do this every 4 weeks so they don’t get too long. This will help a great deal.

Make sure she has a lot of things to keep her busy,,cat tree, interactive toys, etc..that should help too.

Finally, if you catch her in the act. You can try sound as a deterrent. Take a metal can–like a soup or coffee can, fill it with a few pennies and seal it. When you see her start to try to scratch, loudly shake the can and say NO in a firm voice. After a few times of doing this , you may see her not trying to go near the furniture.

Good Luck! Make sure to check out the link I put in at the top of this, lots of good advice there.

~kelly

Someone I know trained his cat to not scratch furniture by putting double sided tape on it

Hi Zain
As she is a kitten – she needs building up like any new animal- get kitten milk -it is called that- NOT normal milk -at the supermarket- this is a food supplement- any good commercial “wet” canned food and you can get biscuits for different age cats
Also the local vet can give you advice – a lot of commercial biscuits are very salty- ask the vet
regards David

Thank you so much but is there any way to find a vet near me (Burlington Ontario) that is very inexpensive?

Hi….you don’t say how young he is….but very young animals, like babies have no control over their bladder and bowels. 

Give him some time, lots of patience and he’ll get the hang of it as he gets a bit older. 

Yesterday he came in the house to have playtime. After, my daughter sat him in the litter box and he urinated! Thanks so much!

your cat needs a vet to determine your next step.  don’t give an antibiotic without veterinary direction.

Hes already in pain with an absess in his mouth. Please do as Laura said and take him to a Vet this won’t get better without the correct treatment. If the poison from the absess goes into his bloodstream it will get a lot worse. 

Phone Vets see if you can pay the bill off, borrow the money, anything… but you have to take him.