as a baby she would sit on my lap for hours and would let me cuddle her and everything. she still enjoys being stroked and jumping on my bed while im sleeping but she wont sit on my lap anymore and scratches me when i try to pick her up (to go to vets or watever). she has become a bit of a problem but has recently given me 3 beutiful babies thta love to be cuddled but also dont like to be picked up since about 10 weeks. is this normal and will this behavour go away when we hav her neutered??