Her bed, by the way, is on my bed, right next to me, but gives us some separation. or else she sleeps right next to me. And I mean, right against me. I worry, as I’m a bigger woman, and she is 17 pounds that she shouldn’t sleep so close to me. I do toss and turn at night. Last night I tried to get her to sleep on her bed and she looked so heartbroken. I really want her to sleep on that bed for her safety. Do you think I’m being horrible insisting she sleep on her bed? Or am I being manipulated? How do you suggest I properly transition her to her little bed?